Bad mental health : Reason parents?

 Bad mental health : Reason parents?

In world full of people everyone is unique and has its own qualities which makes him/her different from others. But does our society really know this? Does our parents also believe the same? So the sad reality is ‘No’.

Still parents think that our children should do what they want him/her to do and what’s the reason according to them is that they are parents and knows the better of their kid but one thing they don’t know is that individual has it’s own life too not disrespecting parents but YES YES YES their kid is also a human being. He/She must have her own field of interest but due to so much of pressures not by the society by by their own parents is

nowdays became very common. I am here with a story of a girl who was also disrespected by her family because of her grades and always forced to do the things which her parents wanted.

A innocent girl took birth as a second child of her parents in a well settled & educated family. She was not that much brilliant in her studies since childhood. But she was very friendly and a frank girl who always

respects elders and was very close to kids. Since her childhood she was kind off ignored by her parents, her parents never wanted to know about her and what really she is and what she wanted in her life. She was not that much close to her parents. She always do what her parents told her because of the pressure. She somehow passed her school. She scored good but her parents itself has told the relatives that because of she got passed as her father knows some people. She was always hurted nobody never wanted to know her and always compared by her elder sister. She was forced to do Bachelors in Arts but when she took admission her parents dropped this idea and took her admission in Nursing but there also they didn’t satisfied and they walked step by step by others opinion but still here they never asked her what she wanted to do. They took her admission in a very expensive and one of the top universities in their country in xyz course which was never her cup of tea. She was never interested in studies but always did her best. She never asked for good clothes, money and good food from her family eventhough she was always missunderstood. Abusing her daily for her bad grades and societal pressure on her made her dead from inside she was now not a personality how earlier she was. She was a cheerful person and a person who always wanted to fight for herself. But now things begun and went to its peek, she was abused, she was being beaten. Her hopes were dying daily. She was even called ‘FAILURE’ by her own mother daily. Food was given as they were feeding a dog. She never told anyone about this but she was going through alot. She was tensed about her future, about her and was in depression which was declared by doctors but her parents never took this serious. In the 4th year, a great fight occured between the family itself her sister was also included in this where she gave the idea of open studies but still it was not her choice. Still she thought she can do something here but one more pressure was on her because her 4th year fee was already paid by her family and it was non refundable. She was abused, treated like an animal daily and things continueed. They never understood her and she never told her because she never found a safe place for her and still struggling for her life………..

Parents are considered as god but when they don’t understand their child things got worsen. Their kid never find a path which he/she wanted. Not every children is brilliant but is unique. Like her they never knew her field of interest and she never told. As her talent was hidden there are many children in the world who were not treated well by the parents and their lives destroy. It’s time to think parents.