Bad mental health : Reason parents?

 Bad mental health : Reason parents?

In world full of people everyone is unique and has its own qualities which makes him/her different from others. But does our society really know this? Does our parents also believe the same? So the sad reality is ‘No’.

Still parents think that our children should do what they want him/her to do and what’s the reason according to them is that they are parents and knows the better of their kid but one thing they don’t know is that individual has it’s own life too not disrespecting parents but YES YES YES their kid is also a human being. He/She must have her own field of interest but due to so much of pressures not by the society by by their own parents is

nowdays became very common. I am here with a story of a girl who was also disrespected by her family because of her grades and always forced to do the things which her parents wanted.

A innocent girl took birth as a second child of her parents in a well settled & educated family. She was not that much brilliant in her studies since childhood. But she was very friendly and a frank girl who always

respects elders and was very close to kids. Since her childhood she was kind off ignored by her parents, her parents never wanted to know about her and what really she is and what she wanted in her life. She was not that much close to her parents. She always do what her parents told her because of the pressure. She somehow passed her school. She scored good but her parents itself has told the relatives that because of she got passed as her father knows some people. She was always hurted nobody never wanted to know her and always compared by her elder sister. She was forced to do Bachelors in Arts but when she took admission her parents dropped this idea and took her admission in Nursing but there also they didn’t satisfied and they walked step by step by others opinion but still here they never asked her what she wanted to do. They took her admission in a very expensive and one of the top universities in their country in xyz course which was never her cup of tea. She was never interested in studies but always did her best. She never asked for good clothes, money and good food from her family eventhough she was always missunderstood. Abusing her daily for her bad grades and societal pressure on her made her dead from inside she was now not a personality how earlier she was. She was a cheerful person and a person who always wanted to fight for herself. But now things begun and went to its peek, she was abused, she was being beaten. Her hopes were dying daily. She was even called ‘FAILURE’ by her own mother daily. Food was given as they were feeding a dog. She never told anyone about this but she was going through alot. She was tensed about her future, about her and was in depression which was declared by doctors but her parents never took this serious. In the 4th year, a great fight occured between the family itself her sister was also included in this where she gave the idea of open studies but still it was not her choice. Still she thought she can do something here but one more pressure was on her because her 4th year fee was already paid by her family and it was non refundable. She was abused, treated like an animal daily and things continueed. They never understood her and she never told her because she never found a safe place for her and still struggling for her life………..

Parents are considered as god but when they don’t understand their child things got worsen. Their kid never find a path which he/she wanted. Not every children is brilliant but is unique. Like her they never knew her field of interest and she never told. As her talent was hidden there are many children in the world who were not treated well by the parents and their lives destroy. It’s time to think parents.

What journalism teaches us?

Journalism is about observing, knowing people also their perspectives & putting it in front of the world. Till now as we are in 2nd year, we have learnt a lot of things just because of the initiative of filed visits by the university. 

As a girl who wants to become a News Anchor, I have came to the university with my dream. I don’t know whether it’s going to take me to the place where i want to go but as we grew up in the atmosphere, I got to know about many things.How is it important to learn beyond books & how far we can go from the marks we got. Life teaches us many lessons and i believe the experiences gives you the best lessons of your life. As my 1st semester ended and 2nd semester begun we were told about the field visits idea, it was very exciting moment for us. Everyone was ready for this because we have left our homes and came here to fulfill our dreams. We went to The Tribune Chandigarh, Daily Post Mohali in our first visit. It was our first time to go inside any media houses and watching anchors live. It seems that I was living my dream and I got very inspired by this visit. The head of the media house was very humble, kind & inspired us alot about the fied we have chosen. How we can reach to the place where we want to. Further we went to many field visits like Harike Patan wetland, Radio Mirchi Jalandhar, District Court Jalandhar, a nearby ashram etc. I Believe as a journalist we have to be more brilliant and observant than an IAS officer. Our field includes everything that’s why we were sent to different places. Why we were sent to the wetland? So that we can come to know about our nature how is it preserved and till when it will be prevented?? Many questions raised in our minds and we asked the people of NGO there. As we are adults now we have to now face the world so we have to get answers of our questions. When we went to radio mirchi station we were filled with curiosity & lots of joy because since childhood we have only listened radio and has never seen the work station. So, for us it was one of the best filed visit. All the persons working there were very kind and very friendly to us, they calmly told us about each and every thing of the working of a radio station. It was a great time with them all. Then Ashram has gave us many life lessons, we think our lives are difficult and filled with problems but when we meet blind people including chidren and old people we were shocked to know about their stories. Everyone has their own stories  & their own struggle. As a journalist we should be aware of the dark truth of our life which is struggle and obstacles in our lives. Like this many more visits has teached us many lessons which we can’t get from just studying books and by bounding ourselves. I am sure one day by fighting with all my problems and struggles, i will surely achieve my goal.🤗

My Childhood Days💗

 Growing up in a small town, my childhood days were filled with simplicity and adventure. The town was surrounded by lush green fields, mountains and dotted with cozy houses, where everyone knew each other. Summers were my favorite time of the year. I would spend hours playing outside and exploring the nearby woods with my cousins. The woods were our playground, a magical place where we built forts, climbed trees, and imagined ourselves as brave adventurers on epic quests.

   A place where we use to play in childhood❤️

One of the most memorable aspects of my childhood was the strong sense of community. Neighbors looked out for each other, and it wasn’t uncommon for someone to drop by with freshly homegrown vegetables. A nearby forest was a gathering spot for families, and many weekends were spent there having picnics and participating in community events. I fondly remember the  BANKHICHDI : where all people from village gets together in fields and togetherly makes rice with ghee,curd etc. It was my one of the favourite outing of the year.

School was another significant part of my childhood. My elementary school was just a bit far away from home. I use to go school in a yellow coloured Bus.The school itself was a small, close-knit place where teachers knew every student by name. I enjoyed learning and looked forward to subjects like art and science. Field trips were always exciting, especially visits to the local museum and the science center.

Evenings at home were cozy and comforting. My family had a tradition of reading together before bed, and I would often lose myself in the pages of a good book, dreaming of far-off places and fantastical adventures. My parents encouraged curiosity and creativity, and I spent many hours drawing, writing stories, and tinkering with small projects.

Looking back, my childhood days were a blend of simple joys and the freedom to explore and imagine. The experiences and the sense of community shaped who I am today, leaving me with a treasure trove of happy memories and a deep appreciation for the simple pleasures of life.

Nature mother is taking all her gifts back??

   Nature mother is taking back all her gifts back???

Where earlier himalayas were a great source of fresh water & no one has thought of water scarcity here. But situation is now changed. Being a person from a mountains we are facing a lot of problems related to water. No sufficient water is supplied to the villages even the sources of natural water/ fresh water are now destroyed just because of human activities in the name of development. Climate change can also be considered as one of the reason for water scarcity not in himalyas but also in cities like Delhi where people are struggling to get a bottle of water even. Metling glaciers is a great threat to our future generations and for us too. Due to rising global temperature its leading to reduced flow in rivers and streams during dry seasons. There are alot of changes occured in precipitation patterns which resulted in irregular rainfall, affecting the replineshment of water sources. Deforestation and firing the forests in Himalayas are becoming a great threat to human life as well as wildlife. Deforestation for agriculture, logging and development reduces the land’s ability to retain water and affects the natural recharge of groundwater. It is also leading to soil erosion, reducinh the capacity of soil to absorb and hold water. In the name of development a lot of destruction is occuring to nature. In some parts of Himachal Pradesh, Uttrakhand and Jammu Kashmir roads are being made tunnels are being made which are a part of development but broadning the roads to 6 lanes 8 lanes is correct till where? People’s houses are being destroyed, alot of minning activities are being done and mountains are being destroyed. If we are playing with nature now it’s going turn for nature to play with us. Wastage of water?- now no water, struggle for water. Extreme minning in moutains?- landslides and increased temperature. Now people are struggling for all those sources which are gift of nature to humans but because of human activities now nature is taking back all it’s gifts. Because we humans are greedy and for our ownselves nothing matters. So, it’s better not to play with nature.